Tuesday, March 24, 2009'♥
Today,I'm happy! I was Close to her every second in school.
XOXO, HUGO(HEY-YOU-GOOO!) CHIA ZHEN YU.♥ @ Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Monday, March 23, 2009'♥
I cut my hair,it was seriously ugly. The Next Day,We was chatting online.She came to my aid and told me i'm not that ugly.That did the magic. I really love you. I want to kiss her,she say can't.Fuck! Not even on the dark!!! Argh! Whats more,my chinese teacher saud that i love ericka,hows that fucking possible? She got bucks teeth.Are you crying now ericka? Cos usually you are bragging about your retarded rabbit look.Wow?Bold eh? You ain't a fucking threat to me girl.You ain't pretty.Rachel is much so much better than you! Maybe not so much,Its FUCKING mich! I learnt the song'Fall for you' in piano.Planned to perform it inpublic asking her to be my love.Muahahaha! I'm a BIATCH!
XOXO, HUGO(HEY-YOU-GOOO!) CHIA ZHEN YU.♥ @ Monday, March 23, 2009
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She ask me whats love and the answer is,
Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true. Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person.
Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal and sexual relationship. The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers, parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday. But �love� is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy.
In the past the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love, just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it.
Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by both philosophers and scholars. Love also includes compatibility. But it is more of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture. Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility, the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey. We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect.
Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.
XOXO, HUGO(HEY-YOU-GOOO!) CHIA ZHEN YU.♥ @ Monday, March 23, 2009
